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Permalink Reply by Namwanoku Barekiau on February 18, 2010 at 8:38pm

E rangi n rarabwa te tia tabeka teiango teuae Karaiti Bateriki, e koaua ba bon anne te anua ae ea rangi ni bwainaki irouia naaka mmwaane te kakan roronga, ao te aonikai, ngkana e bon karauaki ni iangoaki ao ti bon rangi ni kairua ngaira aika mmwane kee? ti oki n raraun ao ti kakibaia buura ba ana katauraoa te bwai are ti tangiria ma ngkana arawa ao arebwe naba ea? ao eaera ngkoa are tia tia n taku bwa akea buura, akea natira, ngkana ea boo ara tai ni karoronga, bon te bwai teuana kee? ma irarikin anne te tia tabeka te kaoti ao ai tiaki ti mmwane n aonikai bwa ngaia aine naba a kona naba n aonikai, euara te mwaan aei? tao ti tau iai ngaira mmwane n ara katei kee? ao ngaira aine ai tera aron ara katei? ea eiwati nakoim ba ai tera aron katokan te mwaan ae te aonikai ngke ko bon ataia ae iai buum ao koa manga kakaenako riki. ia katikua nakoim.

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Permalink Reply by Karaiti Bateriki on February 18, 2010 at 9:32pm

Ko rabwa Namwanoku Barekiau n am kaeka nakon te tabeka are " Cheat on our partner" ngke I taku bwa bon 'issue' teuana are na rangi ni kakaongora arona .. ma n te koaua ao e bon rangi ni kanganga otin matana ngkai ti bon bane n rumwaroia i bon iroura n tatabemanira ngke ti kakoaua bwa te "good reputation" are iroura e na aki bua.....

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Permalink Reply by Tabby Ioane Tamaki on February 19, 2010 at 6:25am

Mauri naba te tia tabeka...akea bwa e katikaki matau n am kario aio ae CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER.....ao bukin terana ngkai e riki???
Tao ngkana i taraia baika mwaane ao i taku bwa bon aia hormones are e karika te kan karaoa te waaki aio ao ni kaotia bwa they still can get anyone even a tia n say te "I DO"ma iai mwaane aika a konaa n control themselves ma bon iai naba ane ana fall into that kind of temptation which what i called LUST....
Bon te bwai ae e kamaraki atuu riki nakoira ngaira aine ngkana ti find out bwa ngaia buura a manga kinano ke n reke raoia tabeman irarikira ma at the end of the day ao e konaa n noraki te raure ke tao terana???
Tao ti ngaia anne ma ngkami mwaane kam a tia n rinea matami ao ea tau te manga taratara nako......bon akea uaaana ae ena reke mai karawa bwa iai n ana tua Moote ake tebwina are e kangai tai mataiakina buun raom ke e kanga????kam a manga kaetai ao anne moa bon au iango n te tai aio ao ia kabwara bure ngkana e aki botau ma ane iroumi ma are aio te open discussion kee?????.

e rabwa.

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Permalink Reply by Tetoaiti Tamati on February 19, 2010 at 8:00am

Ko rabwa ngkoe Beiatarawa Mwatao Teataki n am kaeka nakon te maroro aei. I aki raroa n iango ma ngkoe n aron kanga bwaetan nanom ngkoe ae te aine ni katerea iai kanga aron te kamaraki n te waaki ae ai aron aei...Tao e bon ataaki are te waaki aei kanga a rangi n rekereke riki iai m'ane; ma ti kakoaua ae aine naba n tabetai.
Oin te kanganga....we guys think we might find something different and more exciting.......are i nanonna e kangai ngkana ko kakana tao te taman ao e a okioki naba; ane ko na manga kan kana ngkanne te iriko....
e aori anne bwa kanga ti te bwai ni kauki iango.....ma e rangi n rarabwa riki aron norakin manenan te tabeka aei iroum ao ko rarabwa riki. Ko na tekeraoi n am waaki.

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Permalink Reply by Karaiti Bateriki on February 19, 2010 at 5:19pm

Ko rabwa ngkoe Beiatarwa n am kaeka; i reitaki ma ngkoe n te kanganga are ko a tia n tibwaia ao i kakoauaa anne ngkai bon te bwai ae ririki i nanon te maiu; riki iroura ngaira m'ane(e aoria ngkana tiaki m'ane ni kabane) ... ma te bwai ae kakawaki bwa i ti kateia bwa te bwai ni katoto are a na kairaki iai ara iango i aon te maroro aei
E ngae n anne ao am kaeka ake ko anga n te tai aei bon akea bureia ngkai a na rangi n i buobuoki nakon te kareke iango i aon te maroro aio . Ko bati n rarabwa riki ngkoe Beiatarawa; au kantaninga bwa e nang uki riki am iango ao n rababa riki am taratara i aon kaekaan te "topic" ae why do we men cheat on our partnet? Ko rabwa riki ao e na kakabwaiaki am bong.

Replied by Karaiti Bateriki 20/02/2010

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Permalink Reply by Karaiti Bateriki on February 19, 2010 at 6:44pm

Mauri ZaReNiMeAnG
Ko rabwa n am kaeka. I kakoauaa are bon tiaki m'ane ni kabane ae a kakaraoa te baere te kinano ke te kakaroronga. I boraoi n iango ma ngkoe are bon iai naba tabeman ake a bon kona n avoid te kanganga anne....
E ngae n anne ao i kakaitau n am kaeka are ti tabo ma te kaeka are e nako man te nano ni koaua ngke i namakina te namakin are ko taetae mai iai. Eng bon tiaki te bwai ae boou ma bon te bwai ae kona n okioki i nanon tao wiiki,nam'akaina ke ririki.......ti na kanga n solve te kanganga...? tao man kitanakiia raora..??
ao ngkana ti karaoa anne .... tera aroia iai natira ... ko kakoauaa ae kona n roko raoi kukurein tetei ngkana ngkana iai te bwai ae miss are moan te kakawaki irouna ae akean tamana ke tinana irarikina..?
Ngkana ti tara am itera n aine ao i kakoauaa are ko taekinna ngke ko na bon ira tangam i bon iroum, ao ni kataua kitanakin raom ke te mwenga are ko mena iai; tiaki i bukina bwa ko aki tangira raom ma bon i bukin te baere te kakaroronga ..... ao i taku bwa anne ae bon ririki ma ngaia are kakarekea matam n tutuoa ao n ongongora i aon te maroro aio ao n rinnako naba iai i aan te kantaninga are a kona naba n reke buokara man tibwaakin ara iango aika a kakaokoro....
Ko bati n rabwa riki ngkoe ZaReNiMeAnG ao ko na tekeraoi

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Permalink Reply by Komai on February 23, 2010 at 1:51am

Hhhmm well for the topic itself, this does not apply to all man but rather most of the men in society today. Cheating itself is not condoned by the bible and is one of the twelve commandments - Thou shall not convey thy neighbours wife, his servant or ox. So that would be considered cheating. Unfaithful partner, leads to diagreement which leads to divorce and a brand new start of life. I myself have never tried to cheat on my partner or think of it. There are consequences in cheating !

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Permalink Reply by Nola Noah on February 28, 2010 at 1:35pm

mamauri riki te tia kario te tabeka aio ae e noraki ba e bon kamimi ma e koaua
eng anne bon aorakiia ara mane i abara aio keer ma e aera ngai i taku ba e bon nakoraoi irouia ba are bon mane kanga akea taekaia iai ao n tuuriia naba iai natiia kee kanoaia.............. kanga ko kona n noria ba mane ake a rang baina te mairiri n aonteaba ao kanga arang atongaki iai keer n aron ae kangai
teuarei naba ae tiraua ana kamate ao e bibitaki buuna ni katoa namakaina kee ririki enako iai ana keze te mane ae
ao ngaira aine boni n te tai are tii riinga iai te bure ae te manga iangoan te bure ma te mane te manna irarikin are bon toam
ehehe e reke ba taekam keer te aine are e kameaka kee are e tatauaki irouia mane tabeman, eaki nako ana kewe te aine iai ma ea bon uotia nakon te kamamaeaki
i kaunga nanomi ngkami aine ba tai karaoa te bakabure ke bakaburean rabatam ngkana e karaoa kawaina buum ae bure ba ko bakaburea iai rabatam ae e rang tamaroa n akea nanona ao e riki ba bainingaream iroun te mane are ko karena tabona ba mane tii te kan roko irouia aine ao akea aia tangira ba abon tangira riki buuia
etau tekeraoi te kaoti iango ma e raraba riki te topic aio ba ea manga kaoka ara iango nakon ae raoiraoi

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Permalink Reply by terz j kangkaa on February 28, 2010 at 9:03pm

Te discussion aei kanga e bon tii kaineti nakoia mane ba e kangai...." e aera ngaira mwane......." . tiaki ngai te mwane.... ma I rangi ni kan kaota au iango....... te kaitataan/ mataai n rabwataia aine anne te bwai ae bon irian te rabwata.....ma mwane ngkai a kai baka bon ibukin ae a kaokoro riki aroia ni kabotauaki ma aine....ao karaua iangoia ...ngkana a baka mwane..."antai raoia ni baka????" tiaki te aine ae a taanna/admiire....are nanona ba te mwane/husband are e kai baka ao te aine ae baka ma ngaia bon ti tabo aroia.....iai irouia te nano ni kaibabaru ao ni katikitiki i bon i marenaia.......aki roko n te bwati n te katei ni Kiribati .....akea taekaia aomata aekakin aei n ara katei ni Kiribati/winnanti ni Kiribati......"a teinibaba" ba a kan kakaraoa te bure ma te mwane ni umwa......

ao n ana itera te aine ni umwa are e baka buuna...ti te bai ae e riki irouna bon PAIN/HURT....sometimes....BROKENHEART.......ao anne e aki karimoaaki irouia mwane ba tao a selfish....e taku ana taeka temanna te writer(forgot name) ba mwane ae a baka n te kaibabaru .....a bon aki kan responsible iroun aia wives ngkana e hurt.....a tii iangoi nanoia.

Anothe point...te karoronga anne akea burena ngkana te karoronga mai kiraroa n akea kawaran rabwatan te aine.........anne ngai irou e rangi n tikiraoi ba are e a bon aki kona n tuukaki te kaitataan....ma ko a rangi ni bure ngkana ko a kaitibo ma rabwatan te aine/mane.

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Permalink Reply by Mahina on February 28, 2010 at 9:41pm

simply put: coz they horny pigs.

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Permalink Reply by Nono M Terukaio on March 11, 2010 at 10:24am

Mauri taan kaoti iago :P

Im a no Gender-hatred @ diz mins.......ma tao nna tii put down sum useful points regarding men...

A tia n kabootauaki Mwane (male) bwa kangaa ti tabo ma tenaan Rats....

The question is................WHY???

The Answer............" Because they're always in a search of new holes".......lol

kabwara te bure ma hope sum of uz find it realiable ....heheheeh

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Permalink Reply by Plunder on April 6, 2010 at 2:01pm

One thing that I truly believe is that not all Kiribati men cheat on their wives..

As for the discussion topic CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER, I strongly believe that not only the men cheat, cos wouldn't that make them gay? Both genders play a role in this unwanted but present case.

In our culture I have noticed huge numbers in teenage marriages due to first sexual experiences. These young couples marry not because of what they thought was love but of their dignity (especially the women)..another is that sometimes one partner may not be satisfying the other and thus encouraging extra marital romance..

I think that to address these issue we could teach our children to be more patient and get to know their potential spouse..and to adjust our culture just a bit to allow some breathing space for our youngs' love lives and to enable them enough time to finalise a big decision (like marriage) which will save them heaps of heartache and headaches in the future...

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